The Trip of a Lifetime

After approximately 18 hours in the air and 34 hours of total travel time, we arrived safely in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia at 9:15pm local time (8 hours ahead of Central time) on March 14, 2011.    

We had a lot of anxiety about how our trip, and specifically our entry into Ethiopia, would go.  Our anxiety mainly stemmed from the fact that we are not world travelers, we have never traveled to a third-world country, we were bringing a lot of donation items with us, we were traveling because of our adoption (and you’re never really sure how a country feels about an American family adopting one of their orphans), etc., etc.  

Well, as He has proven to us time and time again, God was protecting us—and our luggage!  We seriously felt your prayers!  That might sound weird, but it’s true—we really knew that a lot of people were praying for us and we felt a lot of peace because of that.  So, THANK YOU!

And now for the details (for those who want them)…

4:30am on 3/13/2011 – Mike & Dela (Eden’s Grandpa and Grandma) picked us up to take us to IAH 

2 ½ hour Continental flight from Houston to Chicago (looking fresh and clean and ready to go!)
















6 ½ hour layover in Chicago – used the time to put a huge dent in the thank you notes (we LOVE having the “problem” of having lots of thank you notes to write!) and make phone calls

















Ben’s first ride on a “double-decker” plane…
















8 hour Lufthansa flight from Chicago to Fankfurt (still looking fairly fresh and clean…)















4 hour layover in Frankfurt – stretched out and rested/slept a lot (it was SO hot in that airport!)















Ben’s first time riding a bus to the airplane and loading using the portable stairway…





















7 hour Lufthansa flight from Frankfurt to Addis (definitely NOT looking fresh and clean anymore!)
















We arrived safely in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia at 9:15pm local time (8 hours ahead of Central time) on 3/14/2011.  We went straight to the line to obtain our travel Visa and we were then shuffled through customs.  The line went surprisingly fast and we were not asked ANY questions—they simply did their required paperwork, got what they needed from our passports, then gave everything to us and sent us on our way!  

As we walked out of the customs area, we immediately saw our luggage—ALL 7 bags—sitting there waiting for us!  Because of a good friend who booked our flights using airline mileage, we were considered “Elite” and therefore our bags had special tags on them and had already been taken off of the carousel and put in a neat little row for us!

We got help with our luggage from two very friendly porters (that may be too formal of a title—they were Ethiopian men who work for the airport and help people with their luggage—presumably only on the tips they receive).  They did all of the heavy lifting as we then had to send all of our luggage through a security scanner.  Out of all 7 bags and our carry-ons, only one of our bags got selected to be opened and checked.  It was one of Patty’s  bags and it contained the food processor that we were donating to CFI, so we were nervous that they wouldn’t like that.  Turns out all they cared about was whether or not the bag contained any medicine (which it didn’t), so they sent us on our way!

As we walked out of the airport, we immediately saw a man in a suit holding a sign that said “Benjamin & Lauren Huss.”  Wow—another moment of total relief!  We greeted him and he invited us and our porters to follow him to the car.  As we walked down the winding ramp, we noticed how nice the weather was.  It was very pleasant to have some cool air blow on our faces after so many hours in airports and planes!

The nice men loaded up the van and I (Lauren) asked them to take a picture with us (Ben rolls his eyes at me, but then he appreciates that we have photos like that). 















We tipped the porters (standard of $3-4 USD per bag), hopped in the van, and headed to our hotel!  At that point, it was about 10:15pm (only an hour to do all of the Visa, customs, luggage, etc.).  It was dark, so we didn’t get to see much of Addis from the van, but we did have a couple of times when our driver “played chicken” with an oncoming vehicle.  Thank goodness we won both times!  

After about a 15-minute ride, we arrived at our hotel and got our rooms.  Our room was just outside the elevator on the 4th floor and Patty’s room was just down the hall from ours, so it was very convenient.  We were pleasantly surprised at the size of our rooms!  The sitting area with leather chairs and a love seat was just below the windows, so we kept a window open and enjoyed the sounds of Addis.

We spent about an hour sorting through our luggage so we could combine all of the donation items (we had spread everything out among the bags for travel).  After we had everything sorted and organized, we got settled in for the night.  It was nice to stretch out in a real bed after so many hours on airplanes and in airports sitting up to sleep!

Peter from CFI coming to pick up the donation items…













From the entrance to our room… 















Our bed (we think the crooked picture hanging on the wall adds a lot of character to the room!)















Our bathroom (interesting tidbit: everything is very “fancy” and we have our own hot water heater, yet instead of a shower curtain, there is a drain in the middle of the bathroom floor—so water just goes everywhere)




















The view from our hotel window…







Look what YOU did!!

I've said it before and I'll say it again...we have the most generous friends ever!  You totally stepped up to the plate with donations for us to take over to Ethiopia!  Check out the loot that we're giving to a very deserving organization, CFI...
















































15 soccer balls (3 different sizes)
3 soccer ball pumps
15 scrub sponges (5 packages of 3)
200 gallon-sized Ziploc bags (5 boxes of 40)
600 cotton balls (6 bags of 100)
500 baby wipes (5 packs of 100)
570 gummy children's multivitamins (3 bottles of 190)
9 tubes of Neosporin
240 travel-sized toothpaste tubes
60 toothbrush covers
1 puzzle
23 books
10 slinkys
144 balloons (2 bags of 72)
25 play dough (5 packs of 5)
24 pieces of sidewalk chalk (4 packs of 6)
3 jump ropes
10 super balls
15 sticker books w/ stickers
2 packs of letter stickers
10 coloring books
17 dry erase boards
84 pencils (5 packs of 12; 4 packs of 6)
120 crayons (5 boxes of 24)
212 markers (2 packs of 100; 1 pack of 12)
8 pencil sharpeners
10 scissors
28 glue sticks
400 colored craft sticks (2 packs of 200)
1000 popsicle sticks
300 pipe cleaners (4 packs of 75)
2 packs of pom pom balls
372 wiggle eyes
48 rubber band bracelets (2 packs of 24)
204 feet of elastic craft cords (4 packs of 51 feet)
800 colored craft beads (2 packs of 400)
225 alphabet beads (1 pack)
29 pairs of socks
4 onesies
7 shirts
4 pairs of pants

And this doesn't even count the entire suitcase full of items that my Mom is bringing from items that folks in Louisiana contributed! (a food processor, lots more pants, a ton of craft project items, etc.)

You've presented us with a challenge that we're more than happy to take on--fitting all of this into 2 suitcases!  Thank you SO much to all of you who contributed money and items that made all of this possible!  And a special thank you to Nancy Mason for doing all of the shopping!

Your Prayers Mean SO MUCH to Us!

We are incredibly blessed to have so many people praying BOLDLY for us!  It is especially meaningful to have other adoptive families praying with us.  This is the email that our adoption community leaders sent out to the group...it's a nice summary of what's going on and how you can pray.  Thank you for your prayers!

Ben and Lauren will be leaving for Ethiopia this Sunday.  They will meet their daughter Eden, who is their first child, on Tuesday and have their first court appearance on Thursday. Recently the Ethiopian Ministry of Women’s, Children's, and Youth Affairs (MOWA) announced that they are going to drop their number of case review each work day from 50 to 5. They are essentially reducing intercountry adoptions by 90%. Since MOWA has to review and approve their case before it goes to the embassy for review, this change could delay the process significantly for Ben and Lauren and the rest of us who are in the process of adopting from Ethiopia.

Please pray that their trip will go smoothly; pray that Eden will be well cared for during her remaining time in Ethiopia and that there will be no delay in bringing her home; and pray that international adoption process in Ethiopia will operate quickly and ethically to "place the lonely in families."

Asking for Your Help

We are so confused and so sad.  We got a call from our case manager today—and it wasn’t a good kind of call.  There have been some changes in Ethiopia.   

Our interpretation and understanding at this point is that the Ethiopian Ministry of Women’s, Children's, and Youth Affairs (MOWA) is getting pressure from organizations like UNICEF (who aren’t in favor of international adoption).  Because of this, they are going to drop their number of case review each work day from 50 to 5.  They are essentially reducing intercountry adoptions by 90%.  And it’s scheduled to take effect on Thursday. 

Based on an explanation from the Joint Council on International Children’s Services (JCICS), MOWA’s plan for a dramatic reduction is apparently based on two primary issues:
1) the assumption that corruption in intercountry adoption is systemic and rampant and;
2) the Ministry’s resources should be focused on the children for whom intercountry adoption is not an option.

YOU CAN HELP change their mind!  Our agency (and all other ethical adoption agencies) cares first and foremost about the children.  Since this decision clearly is not in the best interest of the children, our agency (along with the other agencies that work in Ethiopia and JCICS) will continue to fight this.  Please pray that the children win and that MOWA continues to review cases at the current rate.

Please click here and sign this petition—it will take less than 1 minute!  By signing, you are simply saying that you support the Ministry’s goal of ensuring ethical adoptions that serve the best interest of children, and you are respectfully urging them to consider the overwhelmingly positive, ethical and legal services provided to children and families through intercountry adoption.   You are asking MOWA to reconsider its plan and to partner with governments, NGOs and foundations to achieve their goals and avoid the coming tragedy for children and families.

So, what does MOWA review have to do with bringing Eden home?  MOWA has to review and approve our case before it goes to the embassy for review.  Therefore, if they are only reviewing 5 a day, it could delay the process significantly.  Before this change, our estimated wait time between court and embassy was 4-8 weeks.  Imagine the implications on our wait time with this massive reduction! 

Are you still leaving for Ethiopia on Sunday?  Yes.  This will NOT affect our first trip or our court appointment date, so we’re still leaving on Sunday and we still get to meet Eden on Tuesday and we still go to court on Thursday.

When will you get to bring Eden home?  We have no idea.  This WILL affect the length of time between our first court appointment and our final embassy appointment, which means that it affects the length of time it will take for us to bring Eden home.  Our agency has no idea how it will play out—they can’t give us an estimate because this is all new.  (NOTE: if you have any further questions for me based on this, feel free to email me.)

We know that God is STILL on the throne and that He is in control.  Please pray!  Please pray for the Ethiopian orphans and their caretakers.  Please pray for everyone who is advocating on behalf of these children—in favor of international adoption.  Please pray for MOWA to continue reviewing 50 cases a day.  Please pray for families like us who are caught in limbo after already being matched with our child.  Please pray for ALL families who are in the adoption process from Ethiopia.  Please pray for ALL of the 145+million orphans around the world.  Please pray for ALL of the families who are considering international adoption—pray that this news doesn’t keep them from taking that step of obedience in their life.

Thank you in advance for your help by signing the petition and praying. 

NOTE:  If you want to read more about what UNICEF believes, click here to read one of my previous posts.

Feeling the LOVE!

Seriously, folks—y’all are just TOO sweet to us! Team Huss is really feeling the LOVE these days!  Here are some of the latest highlights...

Gloster Baptist Church Shower
The ladies at my (Lauren’s) home church hosted a shower for us on February 27th. It was so good to see many of the ladies who taught me when I was younger, and to meet some new faces who were kind enough to come even though they only know me through my parents (I haven’t lived in Gloster since 1997!).

Sweet decorations...



Sweet, homemade cupcakes...




Sweet hostesses...




Sweet gifts... 







Sweet sisters...





Sweet Mama...




Sweet nieces...
















Prayer Party
Eden’s Grandma and Grandpa (Mike & Dela Huss) hosted a prayer party for us on March 6th. It was a very special time for us and we received so much encouragement from those who attended. As one of our friends said, even with all of our thought-out prayer requests, we know that there will be many other things that pop up along the way that God knows about and will handle. We just have to trust in His perfect timing and His perfect plan for our family.

Grandpa leading the prayer party...




KPMG Adoption Celebration
My sweet friends who are also my co-workers threw us a party at work on March 7th. I’ve worked at this company for my entire career (8.5 years) and have been in a few different practices, so it was awesome to see representatives from every stage of my career there to support us! Their generosity was overwhelming!

Fabulous decorations...













Fabulous hostesses...





Fabulous gifts...



















Another Special Moment
My 7th grade girls (with the coordination from my co-leaders, Stephanie and Nicholle) each wrote sweet letters to Eden.




















Donations
We continue to be amazed at the generosity of all of you. Between the gifts for Team Huss and the donations for us to take over to Ethiopia, we feel incredibly blessed! We will do a separate blog post later in the week to summarize all of the donation items we’re taking over with us.

But seriously, you guys are TOO sweet!  We feel VERY LOVED!  THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!

Since many of you asked...

Many of you have asked if you can help by sending items over with us to Ethiopia when we travel. Thank you so much for your kindness and generosity! The answer is “yes, you can!”

Here are some specific items we would love to take over with us on our first trip…

Need by Friday, March 11th:
- Children’s pants/slacks, especially in sizes to fit 8-12 year olds, slim and extra tall/long (must be new or like new)
- English books for toddlers/preschoolers (board books, storybooks, etc.)
- English books for 1st – 4th grade readers
- Soccer balls and volleyballs with pumps (preferably already deflated for travel)

NOTE: if you want to provide money instead of items, just let us know if you have a preference for what the money will go toward and we will take care of that.  You can use the "Donate" button on the right-hand side of the blog and put a note that lets us know what you want the money to be used for.

We will also take items over on our second trip, specifically for the transition home that Eden is in and some government orphanages supported by our agency. The date of our second trip is unknown, but if you get the items to us by mid-April, that should work out. We’ll update everyone on the exact date of that second trip as we find out.

Need by Mid-April:
- Diapers of all sizes (including preemie sizes) – disposable or cloth, but cloth is a great option!
- Baby wipes
- Diaper rash cream – Desitin is preferred
- Formula – vegetable-based Similac, soy-based Similac, as well as regular formula
- Avent bottles – both 8 and 12 ounce
- Infant and children’s vitamins
- Hand sanitizer
- Shampoos, Conditioners, Lotions for all age children (consider African hair)
- Men’s and Women’s deodorant
- Bibs
- Children’s DVDs and CDs
- Sidewalk chalk
- Blow up balls (preferably deflated for travel)
- Bubbles
- Development toys for infants and toddlers
- “Crocs” (shoes) for older boys and girls
- Clothing for Toddlers – 13 year olds (consider slim / tall clothing) – must be new or like new
- Underwear for all ages
- Light jackets or sweaters for all ages
- Good quality electric shaver
- Rechargeable camping lanterns (for when electricity is out)

NOTE: if you want to provide money instead of items, just let us know if you have a preference for what the money will go toward and we will take care of that.  You can use the "Donate" button on the right-hand side of the blog and put a note that lets us know what you want the money to be used for. 

Again, thank you for your kindness and generosity!

AMEN, Sister!

"Never explain yourself. Your friends don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe it."  ~Belgicia Howell

I'm not sure who this Belgicia Howell is, but I like her (him?) for this quote.  Seriously.  LOVE.THIS.QUOTE.